Do you find yourself saying ‘I love you’ too soon all the time? Learn why waiting to say ‘I love you’ just a while longer can make love so much better.
When you’re falling in love with someone, it’s hard to hold yourself back from taking the plunge.
If you’re smitten by someone you’re dating, chances are, you’d be really enthusiastic about saying ‘I love you’ and taking the next step.
But how soon is too soon?
When is the right time to say ‘I love you’?
And why is it better to wait a while instead of blurting it right out when you feel like it?
Are you saying ‘I love you’ too soon?
Love always takes time.
You may be madly infatuated by someone you’ve met on a date once, or you may think you’re in love after your first kiss.
But it’s not really love at all.
It’s just the first stage in several stages of that mushy thing called love.
And what makes falling in love with each other so magical is the tension and the confusion, the insecurities and those stolen moments of passion that build as two people start wooing each other.
But if you do say ‘I love you’ before you and your new date can feel the excitement of actually falling for each other, you could ruin the happy moment and turn it into something far more serious before both of you have even had the time to evaluate the potential relationship.
Is it wrong to say ‘I love you’ too soon?
Well, truth be told, it’s never wrong to say ‘I love you’ too soon. After all, if you feel it, you feel it. What’s the point in hiding your feelings for someone?
At times, revealing your love for someone may be the best thing you could do, especially if they love you back already. But what happens if you’re dating someone who’s still evaluating you as a long term partner potential?
If you rush it by professing your love for someone who’s still not ready to love you, you may end up losing the relationship even though both of you were perfect for each other. So if you can wait for it, it’s always better to wait a while rather than rushing into something and ruining it without giving the relationship a fair chance.
10 reasons why saying ‘I love you’ too soon sucks
If you truly love someone, or are waiting to say ‘I love you’ for the first time, keep these 10 reasons in mind and test your own potential relationship.
And if you feel like you stand a good chance and are not rushing into love even after reading these tips, then go right ahead and say those three magical words to the one you love!